The Mommy Monologue

Will Lauderdale Lakes commish Haynes' career crash on the reefs of fatherhood?

In his taupe suit jacket, lavender shirt, and purple tie, Eric Haynes looks more GQ executive than Lauderdale Lakes commissioner. But in a city where minorities form the majority and where octogenarian Samuel Brown is mayor, a young vice mayor looks a lot like the heir to the city's future. Even more so because, after a cautious, largely quiet first two terms, Haynes has lately been stretching his political legs. He understands how the closure of Lauderdale Lakes' only Starbucks is an ominous sign for the city's cosmopolitan aspirations, exhorting residents to consider $4 coffee an investment in their commercial district's future. He quit the Broward Black Elected Officials the moment its officers failed to account for missing funds. And he has been the most energetic political advocate for Boyd Anderson High School, the largely black school that is lacking books and needing repairs — unlike Cooper City's largely white high school, which was built at the same time, folks around Lauderdale Lakes have noted.

"In the past, I sat back and watched my colleagues take the lead," Haynes says after a commission meeting in late July, "but after hearing reports from the community, I decided more aggressive action needed to be taken." That means threatening to file suit against the Broward County School District if Boyd Anderson's needs are not addressed soon. "We want to make sure we're at the table and that we're eating steak instead of Spam," Haynes says.

At 37, with his winning smile and engaging manner, Haynes could go a long way in politics, maybe further than this working-class city, an idea that's occurred to him. "I might consider running at the state level," he says.

But that vision seems to vanish the moment he hears the name Beverly Key, his former mistress. "Oh, man!" says Haynes, smiling — or wincing — in spite of himself.

Lauderdale Lakes' most promising young political leader has Clintonian charms and, apparently, Clintonian vices. Haynes had a ten-year affair with Key that ended a year after she gave birth to his baby. Now, Key says Haynes is breaking the law to cheat her and their daughter out of child-support payments. For young politicians, the rocky end of Haynes' extramarital affair could serve as a cautionary tale about breaking personal promises in an era of transparent government and cyberinformation. The residue hangs around out there forever.

Haynes recently refused to discuss Key's claims, saying only, "That's a personal matter. We're in litigation right now. That will be left up to the court to decide."

Since the court route favors Haynes, who can afford to hire an attorney, Key is going public. Key hopes, she says, that her former lover's civic responsibilities will spur him to attend more diligently to his personal responsibilities. "He does a great job as vice mayor of Lauderdale Lakes," Key says. "Just take some of that energy and devote it to your flesh and blood."

Key was in the midst of a divorce in 1997, shopping for a new home, when she met Haynes, who was then working for a homebuilder. "Charismatic, young, very intelligent, ambitious, driven," says Key, recalling her first impressions. "But the attributes he's showing right now, if you'd have told me he'd do this to his daughter, I'd have spat in your face."

Haynes was married with a son, but all through the late 1990s and early 2000s, they were involved romantically, a period during which Haynes founded several companies, including Gemini Construction and Development, for buying and fixing up homes. They remained close when, in 2002, Haynes' local activism turned into a bid for City Commission. Key wanted him to leave his wife. Haynes promised he would — eventually.

In 2005, he recorded an audiotape for Key, which she shared with New Times, in which Haynes pleads for just a little more time: "You've said before, 'Boo, if you love me, then why aren't you right here with me?' And for years, I couldn't give you an answer. But now more than ever, I really know that I love you and that I need to be with you and that I'm going to be with you."

A moment later, Haynes admits, "I'm scared, because it's uncharted territory."

Unwilling to follow through on the divorce, Haynes tried to mollify Key with symbolic gestures. He gave her a diamond engagement ring that he asked her to wear on her left hand. It was Haynes' idea, Key says, to open a joint checking account. He wanted to start a business with her. One day, Haynes took her to a lot where he said the two would build a home, raise a family. Key says that Haynes was so eager to start their new life, "He wanted to get me pregnant," which he did, in 2005.

That same year, he surprised Key by flying to Washington, D.C., to attend her family reunion, where, she says, he told relatives that the two would soon be married.

But Key says that during her pregnancy, the relationship became more turbulent — fights followed by dramatic makeups in which Haynes would shower Key with promises and gifts. During a 2005 trip to New York City, after watching Denzel Washington play Julius Caesar on Broadway, Haynes bought Key a diamond necklace. In a note, he said the necklace's three tiers stood for "past, present, and future."

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  • Ms. Merritt 11/03/2008 8:01:00 PM

    RED ALERT! RED ALERT! Ladies watch out for this fool! I feel for that young lady and her child. Mr. Haynes is not to be played with. When that N word want's something, he gets it! My brother had to threaten him to stop coming to my house when I found out he was married. He'll spend a little change, but he is crazy as hell!

  • Love Married Men 10/20/2008 4:12:00 AM

    Ladies, Ladies, Ladies, Come on now, Most of us at one time or another have had affairs and it does not matter if he is married or living with some one. Dont fault Ms Key cause she fell in love with a married man, obivously he was in love with her at one point also. Yes things went wrong and she is hurt by his actions. She is not the first woman to have a baby with a married man and will not be the last. I am sure that you know someone that that has happened to if not you???????? Dont't be so quick to judge we all have been in that situation. Is your man/husband true to you????????? Have you been true to him?????????? Personally I love married men, I dont want them to leave home, I enjoy things just as they are. Just be careful that Ms Key does not get your man!!!! Mr. Haynes is a nice looking man and I might seek him out for fun, since that is all he wants.

  • Desiree 10/17/2008 4:15:00 AM

    Lady, you have just proven a big point. You are crazy and it's sad. Why does it matter where he is living? If you don't care about him. If this is all about your daughter as you say then why put another's info out there? Why talk about his wife? You allowed this man to pursue you, and YOU chose to not protect yourself, and get pregnant, you knew he was married no matter what he was telling you. Does he have responsibilty in this...absolutely. Should he see his child and take care of her ABSOLUTELY!!! Does he owe you something ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!! You are a bitter and scorned women...I hope you allow Mr. Haynes and your daughter the ability of getting to know each other...but I would assume you will be hateful in that relationship also. I'm hoping any guy reading this will think a minute before messing with this Ms. Key. For Mr. Haynes sake I hope he takes care of his responsibilities but I hope you get away from this women because she is the type that will never allow this to end.

  • Beverly Key 10/16/2008 8:01:00 PM

    For those of you who have commented about my actions to allow New Times into my personal business, I stand firm in my convictions regarding my off again on again relationship with Mr. Haynes. Ladies, have you ever been pursued by a man? Pursued to a point where every man you date is chased away, you are followed to restaurants, to work, home and even church? If you only knew the half of Mr. Haynes' pursuit your comments would be very different. More like the comments his wife made when she called me asking what can she do to keep him home. I swore to her I would not respond to her husband's advances. When I called her back, it was to let her know he was at my front door begging to be let in. Her comment: "He must really love you". I tried to keep my word to her and God, but shamely, I allowed Mr. Haynes to be more powerful. I also wonder if any of you have been in a position where a married man presented himself the same way Mr. Haynes did. As far as the facts, if you want the audio tape to hear his voice yourself, please do not hesistate to call me. I will make a copy and send it to you. The New Times story had nothing to do with me still wanting Mr. Haynes. or what I just discussed, it's about a man troubled,about who he wants to love and all I am asking him to do is love on his daughter. Mr. Haynes has proven to me his power, in court and in the community. By the way if its me that's so confused why is he presently, as of today, living with his new girlfriend, his business partner of Sono Care in Lauderhill instead of with his wife and children in Lauderdale Lakes? 954-868-0856. Finally, "I'll send the check when I get ready to and visitation is not mandatory" that behavior towards his daughter might be something to comment on. 954-868-0856 PEACE

  • Delialah 10/03/2008 3:42:00 AM

    Well, well, well! I see no need for finger pointing. These are both 2 adults that were aware of what they were getting into. Ms. Key, u being fresh out of a divorce, you went in with hurt, not with your heart. If your heart was in it, this would of been something that you thought about before you decided to endulge in a married man! Mr. Haynes being himself, just saw beauty outside of his marrige and realised that you were voulnerable. I do feel that babygirl shouldn't suffer for the ignorance of 2 adult mistakes. Now is the time to keep her prayed up and blessed up, and never stop praying, pray ALOT harder. Thank you for taking the time out to read this.

  • Ms. Thomas 09/20/2008 4:45:00 PM

    Ms. Keys, it is shameful that you would put your daughters picture in the paper to gain sympathy. If you were thinking of your child as you state then you would have just shared your story. You should have never put her name or picture out there. Mr. Haynes and you were wrong in this situation, you have both disrespected your family and friends. Since this story is one-sided I can only say that it took you 10 years to realize that this man was not leaving his wife. And I would put money on the fact that you told the wife about this affair, and she chose to stand by her man. Ms. Key you need GOD and therapy, this is no longer about being scorned or your daughter, this is about you not being able to have the man so you will do whatever to make him pay. If you are over it as you say, then the courts will handle it and he will have to pay. But you are not over him at all and this letter proves it. Shame on this paper for putting the childs picture in the paper. Ms. Key, I hope your daughter grows up knowing her father, and I hope you allow it without trying to be in a relationship with Mr. Haynes. Lastly, go see Tyler Perry's a "A Family that Preys", because it seems to be about you.

  • Angry! Single Woman! 09/20/2008 5:04:00 AM

    Obviously Mrs.Key wasn't some naive young girl, because she started this affair while married herself!! How could you imagine or believe you would live happily ever after, when you started a relationship built on deceit and adultery. How could either of you live with any sense of trust in each other? It amazes me how stupid some women can be, because they want money, prestige or a man, more than their "pride and decency". You messed your life up Mrs. Key!! So take responsibility for your foolish actions!! How could you place your daughter's picture in the public's eye!! And shame on the reporter who would suggest such a thing!!! Tell your story, but don't use your daughter. You got yourself in this predicament. "What ever happened to birth control?" I think it would be more likely to believe, you felt getting pregnant would get the man. I'm consoled by the fact, Erica is too young to be ridiculed by other children, because of another foolish act by her mother. Were you ever taught to think before you act, or are you that selfish!! Private matters that involve children should not turn into a soap opera. We've got enough messed up children in the world. I pray Erica will grow up, knowing she is a strong "Black Woman", who has a sense of pride and dignity about herself, without the need to hang onto the coat tail of any man. Something her mother needs to work on. If you've read your comments Mrs. Key, you should understand where I'm coming from.

  • Mrs. Vance 09/18/2008 11:41:00 PM

    It sounds as though a gold digger got caught up in her own mess. If he's 37 and that handsome, what on earth did he see in her, she looks as though she is in her late forties. Did she really believe he would leave his wife, after not doing so within two years. I can't imagine any married man wanting to get a woman pregnant, but I know lots of women who've gotten pregnant, thinking this will keep a man. How trust worthy is Mrs. Key's story, she said she began the affair while married. I'd certainly like to know how many other married men she's tried this with. How did she substantiate her accusations. I can't wait to see the out come. Poor baby to have to be raised by a woman with such character.

  • Mrs. Monroe 09/18/2008 7:49:00 PM

    It sounds to me as if the player got "played.� There are consequences for allowing yourself to get "caught up" with a married man. Unfortunately, your daughter is unable to make the connection with her daddy. He was married when you met him, he was married when you laid down with him and decided to have a child; what would make you think that he would leave his wife and son. In fact, why should he leave his wife and son? It's like the saying goes, "why buy the milk, when you have the cow?" You have made it easy for him over the past 10 years and now you're expecting something different. Don't try and bring him down now because he did not meet "your" expectations. Hope this was a lesson learned...stop selling yourself short. A Married Woman

 

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