"Why say no when it's so much easier to say yes?"
It was the perfect spring break motto. The fact that it was uttered at the Elbo Room gave it a nostalgic twist. The landmark destination still celebrates its heyday as a spring-break mecca, with vintage photographs around the bar that document it including several from the 1960 movie Where the Boys Are.
I'm too young to relate to that Connie Francis flick, but I vividly remember the drama in the 1980s, before the 1984 national law raising the drinking age to 21 and Fort Lauderdale's ban on open containers. Those were the glory days, when students took head dives from hotel balconies.
While a free fall into the ever-after isn't my idea of a good time, I figured if something was going on somewhere on a slow Monday night, it would be down on the strip. Personally, I was a little slow that Monday night, with a full weekend of band shows, costume parties, reggae barbeques, and late night carousing under my belt. Even in that mellow, party-sated state, though, I had just gotten started.
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So when I heard the guy in the Cubs hat try to finagle a freebie from the young lady with the white plastic doorknocker earrings and matching sunglasses, it was like echoes of the past materializing in the present. She leaned on the long outdoor table, smiling coyly at the horn-dog who was hounding her.
Of course, I had to ruin the moment to satisfy my curiosity: "Are you spring breakers?"
The yes man, whose name happened to be Mike, and his wingman were regulars, 30-something working stiffs out for an early evening brewski. The maybe chick and her fly girl were 22-year-old college students who'd evidently learned the power of not saying either yes or no. Ms. Maybe introduced herself as Jamie, a Milwaukee girl who'd moved to Boca to attend FAU. Her friend Ashleigh was visiting from back home. Both were enjoying a week away from school.
"Everyone in Boca is so mean," Jamie said, ignoring the suggestive quips the guys kept launching. "But I'm too nice. I listened to some guy talk about infomercials for two-and-a-half hours the other night."
It was a smart bit of bait that Mike went for hard, even while the girls ignored him so they could tell me about their cute tourist activities during their break, which included baby alligator petting and a night of karaoke. What should have been a boozefest sounded like a snoozefest. Was this Generation Zzzzzzz?
"I'm too nice," I heard Jamie say again, while Wing Man was spewing his own diatribe on the shallow women on South Florida's dating scene.
"I never want to tell someone they're doing it wrong," Jamie continued.
Was I hearing things right? "Are you admitting to faking orgasms?"
"When guys go down on you or finger you, they never get it right," she said with a little shrug. "It's easier just to have sex with them."
"I could have given her four orgasms by now," Mike griped to his buddies, apparently staking his whole game on Leo Durocher's old adage about nice guys finishing last. At this juncture, though, a couple of nice girls named Jamie and Ashleigh weren't even going to let these guys get started.
Soon the group went their separate ways. Enter the Boomer in the yellow hoody, "Ron from Denver," a landscape architect who had been in town for just four hours. He gave the place a knowing look, like Rip Van Winkle wandering back into town, and recalled out loud the days he first experienced Fort Lauderdale Beach, when he and a carload of his frat buddies drove down from Purdue University in the early '70s.
"It was like 12 degrees back home. We drove 24 hours straight and fell asleep on the beach in flannel shirts in our sleeping bags. We woke up to the smell of cocoa butter and people sunning themselves."
Red in the face (whether it was sunburn or beer shine, I couldn't tell), he told me he'd seen the scene change firsthand.
"I'd like kids today to experience the freedom I had. It's like a police state now," he said. (Actually, not bad in terms of crystal-ball-gazing. Thirty minutes later, I watched the cops pointlessly shut down a visiting South Dakota artist selling his work to passers-by.)
"They want to control the traffic; they won't let people drink. This place used to be called Fort Liquordale. Now it's nothing," he opined. "It's gonna lose millions. People wanna come here and have fun not spend $200 for a room at the Ritz Carlton and police control."
I pushed back inside the ramshackle open-air place, sidestepping the vast wet, Lysol-scented spots that attested to the fact that someone had had some fun. There were scads of dudes in T-shirts and shorts, slogging through the floor's muck including the hard-bodied tattoo billboards who were chanting something in celebration of an Eagles football win. (Wait a minute. Isn't this basketball season?) There were even two business guys. The one in the black turtleneck who could have easily been a stand-in for SNL's Dieter had put his mark on the place by donating the "E-Wkends" Illinois license plate on the rafter. It was a sausage fest for sure.
No wonder there was never a sequel called Where the Girls Are.
I might have stuck around if the jukebox wasn't so loud. As the band started loading in, I knew things were just going to get louder, so I decided to take a stroll to check out the rest of the scene.
It was lovely: A chilly ocean breeze spilled in as a silvery moon illuminated what I'm sure was gently rolling inky sea but I couldn't tell you, what with all that orange construction fencing. Wow, Fort Lauderdale really knows how to take all the fun out of a beach party even a wholesome one.
With no ocean to reflect on, I turned my attention to the restaurants and storefronts, all of which were sparsely populated, though clearly giving it the old college try. Flamenco musicians and acoustic guitarists serenaded the customers and passers-by. Still in love with the idea of my first real spring break ever, I ducked into a novelty shop to purchase a "Spring Break 2007 Party Hard" T-shirt, just in case I forgot my mission.
Maybe the 20-something guy in the "I heart the whores" T-shirt was operating under the same philosophy.
"I haven't seen any here yet!" he called back to me down a nearly deserted sidewalk when I commented on the shirt.
The Pirate Republic was empty, Blondies was a bust, the House of 100 Tequilas was closing, and I had no desire to go to BeachPlace. I'd nearly given up and was heading home when I spotted a circle of guys kicking a hackey sack. They'd converged here eight or so of them with nothing to connect half of them other than a game of footbag.
The other half were studying sound engineering together at Middle Tennessee State and had just consumed five fishbowls of fluid fun between them up at Lulu's Bait Shack. The Mardi Gras beads hung from their necks, demonstrating the conventional wisdom that a real party requires some shiny plastic crapola.
"I think we need to go to Miami for what we expected," one of them observed.
"Yeah, where are the girls?" another joined in.
They were telling me that downtown Fort Lauderdale was also a bust, when two slender hotties in short skirts breezed by. The guys yelled out their greetings.
"Hey, come back!" I yelled after the girls, trying to be a good South Florida hostess. Then I reconsidered. "Oh, that won't help," I said, realizing what I'd just done, "unless they're lesbians."
Seeing that I was trying to be helpful, a couple of the guys asked if I knew where to get novelty IDs.
"Generally, at college," I laughed. "How'd you get into Lulu's?"
"They [their buddies] distract them, and we sneak in," the one in the Iowa shirt said.
"And once you're in, you're golden!" his Michigan buddy added.
Since I couldn't be any help, the guys moved on. But a kid with blond dreadlocks, Grateful Dead T-shirt, and rope sandals stood quietly by and so did the serious looking guy in the buttoned down shirt and khakis.
Dreadhead introduced himself as 19-year-old Evan, who was down for the Langerado music festival a week early. Too young to get into the bars, he was just hanging out on the street hoping to hook up with people.
That was the cue for Mike, a 24-year-old psych student at Florida Gulf Coast, to tell his story he'd come here after having a falling out with his North Miami folks earlier in the day.
"I was like, 'Fuck this, I'm getting a hotel on the beach in Fort Lauderdale,'" he said, apparently becalmed after his family set-to. "I'm surprised there aren't more people out. I thought for sure I'd get a hotel on the beach and there'd be all sorts of people. I guess I'll just go back to my room and smoke a bowl... you wanna smoke a bowl?"
You wanna know where the boys are? They're chillin' at the Holiday Inn.
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